It’s been a week of not gaming, really hard, i was begging my friend ” please come on go to them, do what i told you” nothing, i’ve been keeping worm with dozines of small interactions with EVERYONE i see, waitress, cashiers, flayer girls.
Problem was i invested in the girl i picked up last w/e. I thought that she was cute, smart and i like her determination. She has a show on a radio channel from what i can tell and i have issues with carrier motivation(i was a stock trader from like 20 and switched to forex at 23. Made a bit of a fortune and lost it all when my mother got pensioned and realized i had quit collage and the crisis hit. By the end of 09 i had no money left, and seriously thought about quitting life all together)……sorry bout that, quite the side note isn’t it?
Back to game. The initial interaction went aces but all through the week she gave me hell: cold, bitter, out for my balls. I just couldn’t figure it out! It’s finally the w/e and i know this is the right time to take it further with her, i calmed my nerves set a plan to finger fuck her, i know im good at that so why not use that to get my mojo back. I call her, tell her it’s going to be “you and me” but i get a flake. Shes asleep and i back, of tell her that im going out if she wants she can come.
It works and she calls back 2 hours later. We meet at the subway station but instead of my date what do i see? Her best friend and a chode are with her. OH FUCK YOU! NO YOU DIDN’T!(turns out that her friend is there to keep her in check not me!…….loooool, she cant help but want me). From the start i want to impose alfa frame, i just grab her and she pulls away really had. So i back of to figure it out. Her friend is on the phone and the chode is giving the most hateful looks i’ve ever seen. Boyfriend? no…..thats not right, he clearly has a crush on her and hates my guts. They decide to go on a bicile trip for the day and the chode is all alfa and in my face ” i know where the bikes are i’ll leade you” so i back off and let him fuck it up. The girls clealy know whats going on. They say we shouldn’t fight and i say that theres no reason to say that im not going to do that( im not going to chase her like he is).
For the rest of the evening i let him struggle and get worked up over her, i’m not invested in this shit, i wanted a date plus its fun to mess with him. I remember what assanova says, that the funny guy always wins so i tray that and he is just pissed and in denial that they are both laughing at my silly jokes i can almost her him think: “oh come on, eagle just wants to get in your pants, don’t laugh at his stupid jokes, im better dressed then he is better looking, i even qualifed myself all day” . I pitty the guy hes to young to know, i used to be the same way at his age, thought that i looked good and i deserved a gf just by doing nothing. We you do buddy but thoze girls are usually ugly.
I feel really bad for the guy, one time she even tells him ” hey dude why are you so quiet? you used to be more fun”….auch, she knows he likes her but she still messes with him. I invite them over to but i get rejected so i walk them off to the station and tell them to leave me alone with her for 5 minutes and i’ll give her back. They leave and she jumps strait for the kiss but i stop her and tell her she has to invest and take a risk or i can’t do a thing with her and ask her to tell me honestly that she has a bf. She says yes and no. Clearly she is confused, and this is why she gave me shit, because she wants me but feels guilty for it. So i say no problem, i don’t know if shes the one for me kiss her fast and strong and send her on her way.
CONCLUSIONS:i fucked over 2 dudes in one go, this is payback for all the times i’ve been done over. I feel i’m on the right path now at least. Funny wins most of the time as long as you have rapport. Don’t qualify by competing with another guy you are only going to be as good as him in her eyes, just show you can walk away.